The Art of Seduction: How to Seduce a Woman

Attention Men:

How do you get a woman into bed? How do you get a decent girl to be your girlfriend?

Well, I guess you already know. You talk to her in nice ways. You be nice to her friends. You buy her food at fancy restaurants. You buy her flowers. You buy her jewelry.

And then, if you're real good, she'll be your girlfriend and end your sexual starvation.

If you're lucky.

We know that's how it works, because we see it in the movies. We read it in books. We hear it from our friends (who are just as unsuccessful as we are). Weknow this to be true.

Just as people used to know that the world was flat.

Power!

You see, women have all the power. They decide. They choose. They select the men to go out with. They accept and keep the gifts. They decide when – sorry, if – they'll sleep with you.

And who is it that demands equal rights?

There's More

Then there's more. Just about every man can relate this story. You make some totally innocuous remark, perhaps you even complimented your girlfriend, and she explodes in anger. You're left with you hands in the air, saying helplessly, "But what did I do? What did I say?"

The woman not only decides whether (and when) to let you have her, she also decides what mood to be in at any point. And Heaven forbid that you should ever lose your temper with her!

The Jerk

But perhaps you know some jerk who went out with a woman you'd been chasing. He isn't half as nice as you are. He doesn't treat her half as well. He doesn't even have as much money as you. He definitely hasn't known her as long as you have!

What does she see in him that you don't have?

What, what, what?

Why can't you get to sleep with half-decent girls? Why should they hold all the power?

The "Neg"

Well, perhaps you've found some tips and hits on "how to seduce women". I found one course that teaches men to "neg" women. ("Neg" means "treat women like dirt". Make them feel insecure and inferior.) And pounce!

It's the only way (so I was told) to turn the tables. To take back the power.

I gotta be honest with you. It does work. Mostly. I know, because I've tried. But you know what? It left a bad taste in my mouth. I didn't enjoy it, for two very good reasons.

It meant making women feel bad. I don't want to do that. This world is a great place, and I would rather leave women better off than when I first met them. Making them feel insecure and inferior just doesn't fit with my ethics and personality.
I don't want to act that way. I want to be myself, my own personality, and still have women appreciate me for who I am. And leave them better off than when I found them… if I choose to move on.
(Oh yes, I forgot about number 3.) Sometimes, some guy would come along who wouldn't "neg" the women and make them feel insecure and inferior. In fact, he would make the women feel great.

Guess what… He went home with the hottest girl. I was left feeling stupid. And alone.

What Did He Do?

Good question: What did that guy do? Although I watched and listened hard, I just couldn't figure out what he was doing. He'd walk up to a girl – perhaps even the one I'd been after – and within seconds he had her attention. Within minutes, she was ignoring everyone else, and you could already see that he'd got her.

It seemed like magic to me.

Magic? You Bet!

I became determined to learn this magic. Do you know how I found out about it?

I asked. (Simple, huh?)

He told me about a course he'd done. Well, I was skeptical. I'd already done a course. It worked, sort of, most of the time, and meant acting out of character. So I just ignored his advice and carried on winning some, losing some, in the name of seduction — hating myself all the way.

Dumb, huh?

The Final Straw

One night, I’d been working on a hot chick. I’d done all the right things, all the right moves, all the right “neg”s. We’d got to the kissing part. I had her well interested in me. (And as I said, I still didn’t enjoy doing it because it wasn’t me. It was all an act, this “negging” and stuff.)

And guess who walked up? Yeah, that guy. It took him less than a minute – yes, less than sixty seconds! – to get her attention. A few minutes later and the deal was done. For him, not me. Dammit!

Then he looked at me, smiled, and winked. I was just about to bust his ass…

And then, at that moment, I realized. He’d just shown me the power of his advice.

I went home (alone) and ordered the course!

The Reality

When a man has the power, he's the one who seduces. The woman is the one who follows. The man decides.The woman hopes. The man selects.The woman preens herself. The man holds the power.

Because the man holds the power, he can treat the woman as well as he wants without worrying about if he's doing the right thing. He can leave her feeling better off than when he found her, without spending half his wage on her.

Can you imagine that sort of power? Can you imagine choosing the hottest girl in the room and knowing you can get her? Having a great girl over your arm, adoring and loyal, and you know exactly what to do if she throws a typical woman's temper tantrum?

I couldn't imagine it was even possible. Until I'd done the course.

(Hey… Next time you're getting on with that hot chick and some guy walks up and just takes her away from you… It may be me! Don't' hit me; just order the course. I need some competition to keep me on my toes!)

The Art of Seduction

You see, the art of seduction is where you have the ability to ignite her emotional and sexual fire… with just your words! You don't even have to touch her to get her blazing hot for you.

All the movie scenes you see? Forget about them. They are so far away from reality that they belong in Hollywood.

How to Seduce a Woman

When you know how to seduce a woman, you get to know her and understand her during your very first conversation. Just as all of us are programmed to respond to certain things in life, so are women. Especially beautiful women: They are so accustomed to studs approaching them that they automatically turn off.

You need to turn them back on! In fact, these beautiful women are dying to be turned on. They need to be seduced, set on fire, blazing hot for a decent man.

So if you're a decent man, I want you to learn about this, too. (If you're not a decent man, I guess you won't even have read this far anyway; you'll have "negged" a woman who enjoys being abused.)

Think about all the money you've spent on women for nothing or little in return. I did. Heck, hiring prostitutes would have cost me less!

Well, guess what: Money won't seduce her. It won't set her on fire. It won't get her blazing hot. (Money may get her into bed for a while, but it's an expensive way to lay a woman.)

Competition

I've been asked this question: "Aren't you afraid that people will do this course and leave fewer women for you?"

Don't be daft! Only someone who thinks that beautiful women are in short supply would think such a thing. Go to an on-line dating club and see how many women aredesperate to find a good man! The thing is, these women go to clubs, to work, the gym, or wherever, and get the same old tired routine from all the men: The nice words, the flowers, the dates, blah blah blah…

Not one of them turns her on!

These women are not desperate for men (they could easily get a man into bed). They're desperate for men who know how to seduce a woman!

Never again need I feel shot down by that sultry maiden sitting right across from me in Starbucks. Never again need I feel nervous approaching a strange woman.Never again need I wonder, "Will I get lucky?"

Instead, she is left wondering if she will get lucky – with me!